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Greetings.
Due to increased early teenage pregnancy in our country, I thought it's wise for us to reach out to our girls since I'm sure they are struggling silently.was kindly asking if I can join you to talk to the girls and help them in securing their future. I'm greatly disturbed by this and since I cannot do it on my own I decided to contact you. I know together we can do this and save maaimahiu future for the women .thanks in advance be blessed
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Hi Jane,
Thank you so very much for visiting the Community Tool Box and for asking such a great question and sharing your concerns which are concerns you share with many others; we're here to help!  First, before I answer your question/address your concern let me apologize for the delay in my reply, I didn't see your submission until today, July 4th and I do hope the delay won't prove a hindrance in the important work you do.  That said, let me see if I can summarize what you'd like us to help you with: you are concerned with an increase in teenage pregnancy in your country, more so that these girls are dealing with their pregnancy by themselves, suffering in silence as you so eloquently put it..Further, you want to partner with someone/an organization to assist you in your work with the girls to help them not only with their pregnancy, but to help them build a sustainable future, correct?  To be clear, the Community Tool Box, per se, doesn't engage in this kind of endeavor, rather we provide you with the resources you need to meet the needs in your community.
So, let's look in the Tool Box and see what resources will help you most.  It seems that, due to the limited scope of the Community Tool Box's work, you need to find and develop relationships with organizations within your own community, and possibly country (and beyond) that work with pregnant teenagers, organizations that have a track record of success with this kind of work.  However, before you can approach another organization to assist you, I think it imperative that you're really clear on how much of a problem teenage pregnancy is, why there is an increase in same, and why these teens are so isolated; you need to be able to state your facts clearly so that whoever you want to work with you can have a sense of the problem and what their role might be in addressing the problems of both teen pregnancy and pregnant teen isolation. So, the first set of resources I'm going to suggest is looking at Chapter 17: https://ctb.ku.edu/en/table-of-contents/analyze/analyze-community-proble... which takes you through a process of analyzing problems and setting goals.  The associated toolkit is found at this link: https://ctb.ku.edu/en/analyzing-problems-and-goals. A great example of what I'm talking about can be found at this link: https://ctb.ku.edu/en/analyzing-problems-and-goals/examples/example1.  Okay, so to reiterate, the first thing you might do is analyze the problem before you approach another organization; they have to know the problem is a real problem before they will join you in your work. 
The next set of tools (two chapters and two toolkits) to help you find and engage other organizations I am going to suggest are related to communicating to promote interest and participation in the issue of teen pregnancy and pregnant teen isolation.  The first chapter I suggest you read is Chapter 6 - Communications to Promote Interest - which is found at this link: https://ctb.ku.edu/en/table-of-contents/participation/promoting-interest.  The second chapter I suggest you read is Chapter 7 - Encouraging Involvement in Community Work - which is found at this link: https://ctb.ku.edu/en/table-of-contents/participation/encouraging-involv....  The first related tookit, Tookit 1 - Creating and Maintaining Coalitions and Partnerships - can be found at this link: https://ctb.ku.edu/en/creating-and-maintaining-coalitions-and-partnerships.  The second toolkit, Toolkit 8 - Increasing Participation and Membership - offers you ideas to consider once you've engaged with other organizations, found at this link: https://ctb.ku.edu/en/creating-and-maintaining-coalitions-and-partnerships.
So, I think you have the resources you need at present to help you engage with a partner organization as you expressed us that you want to do.  As I mentioned above, there are many things to consider, first analyzing the problems of teen pregnancy, why there is an increase in teen pregnancy, and why pregnant teens feel isolated, second, communicating the issue to the community, and third, getting other organizations involved.  Again, it is beyond the scope of the Community Tool Box to engage in this work with you, but I think you have all the tools you need to get you moving in the right direction.  If there is any more we can assist you with do let us know, that's what we're here for.  Best of luck to you Jane in this very important work.
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Question Date: Wed, 07/01/2020